Monday, June 17, 2013

Two views of a room








Our living room. See how easy it is to take pictures and make everything seem calm and serene?
I'm keeping a blind eye to the mess on the other side (and this here is after a clean-up!). It spreads all over the floor and when I get tired of hopping over it we will clean it up. As much as she loves crafting, I'm happy that Indi is willing to trash the "crafts" she is done with. Some things she keeps for quite long. (Sometimes I clean by myself though and put stuff in a temporary holding spot before the final destination...)

And as unsightly as her craft is, it sure is simple too: she just pulls out empty cardboard containers from the recycling and glues and tapes and draws a bit. I don't have to worry about her "wasting" precious craft supplies, or keeping her handiworks forever.
I can let her go to town with it.
And she does.

Monday, June 3, 2013

Spring Into Summer

















Suddenly we went from jackets and wellies to t-shirts and bare feet! 
We just visited friends in Berlin and came back to full blown summer at home.
It's hot here, and I'm trying to soak in as much summer as I can. 

Free lunch every day for the kids at the community playground, the beach, ice creams, sand everywhere.. 
Summertime is good indeed.

One of my readers asked about what I've been reading. Well, a lot. I read the bible (and I highly recommend it to everyone of ;) ) and a lot of other books. 
I would like to recommend  a few of them.

Merlin Carothers: Prison to Praise  (and Power in Praise) (Kiitä sittenkin ja Kiitoksen voima)

"Many people list this as the most unusual book they have ever read. Millions say it changed their lives and introduced them to the solution to their problems. This is not a book about a prison with bars, but about a prison of circumstances-and how to be set free!"

This book really is something else. When I was reading it, I actually recognized the same truth behind it, than what I experienced when I was healed. When you unconditionally hand over the control of your life to Christ, you are at the same time ACCEPTING ANYTHING that He decides to give you. You ACCEPT HIS WILL. These books go further, to teach us (with many many examples from his own experience and from those around him) how we should be thankful for EVERYTHING in our lives, the good and the seemingly bad, and how radically that will change our lives. 

If you trust your Lord, you trust that every hair on your head is counted, and that your best interest is what He has in mind. We don't always see it, we fight it, we moan and complain. We are really saying that we don't trust God. We don't believe he has everything covered, that we can truly depend on Him, even if He has told us so.  It was astounding to me, that the moment I told God that I was His to do whatever He needed to do with, if I should stay sick then it must be so.. that was the moment I was freed. Yet I still find myself getting frustrated about petty little things that don't go my way. I really believe there is truth in this, so I try now to give thanks about everything in my life. I'm so much a work in process, though! But it doesn't work until you belong to Jesus. If you have not handed over your life, given up control, then you are in charge, and you cannot either thank God or blame God for your circumstances. You are on your own because you choose to be. When you are His, He WILL take care of you and walk right by your side. Then you need to know it and believe it, and thank Him every day for it. 



Two other books I read and liked talk about getting closer to God in a real way. You can talk to Him, and you can get answers. Really! I wish I'd known that long time ago. The Holy Spirit is not just an abstract idea, He is the third person of the Holy Trinity. You know, One God, three personalities. (How can God be One and yet three? Think about a cube. It has six sides. Each side is it's own part, an individual side of the box, perhaps painted a different color, but yet all of them are parts of the one cube and you can't take out one of the sides and still have a cube!). 
He was sent to us to be our guide and comforter. He is real. His job is to glorify Jesus and bring understanding of scriptures. 


John Bevere: Drawing Near: A Life of Intimacy with God  (Lähesty Jumalaa)

"In Drawing Near, John Bevere invites readers to explore a life of intimacy with God. Emphasizing the need for obedience, he urges us to practice-just as we would practice anything we hope to improve-our communication with the Holy Spirit. Understanding that prayer is a dialogue, not a monologue, Bevere encourages us to listen at the Father's feet. "

*NOTE: In one paragraph he mentions physically disciplining his child. I DO NOT advocate that. I didn't want to toss aside the whole book because of that issue, however. The book has so much merit and we can hardly expect to read many books where we agree with 100% of what is written.


John Ortberg: The Life You've Always Wanted (Elämä jota kaipaan)

"The heart of Christianity is transformation---a relationship with God that impacts not just our 'spiritual lives,' but every aspect of living. "

We tend to be so focused on this world. This life. We keep asking God to give us good things in this life. But the greatest gift He is offering is eternal salvation, through repentance and accepting Jesus as our savior. He is offering us Eternity. In the Bible it says to seek first the Kingdom of God, and all other things will be added. It means that when you give up your life to Jesus and seek Him first, He will then take care of the other stuff. The focus should not be on the stuff of the world. Our greatest wish and prayer should be to know Him better!

We need to understand God's perspective is indeed eternity. If our perspective is this earthly 80 years or so, we will never understand what He wants us to prioritize and why, and we will never be happy.










Monday, May 6, 2013

First blooms




























We went to see our woods for the first time in months. It was a cloudy and a little rainy day.
I found this peculiar blooming bush with the most delicate little flowers. I don't know what it is - none of the blooming trees and bushes I know are yet blooming.

I haven't posted anything in a while. I feel like I am starting to sound like a broken record. I feel like I shouldn't post unless I feel like I actually have something to say. I don't want to waste your time reading forced posts, which I wrote just to have something to post.

But the idea of simplicity is timeless. The idea that we shouldn't be greedy and hoard more than we need will never get old. The recent tragedy in Bangladesh, where a large clothing factory providing underpaid labor for many clothing brands, collapsed because it was not properly maintained and security checked, killing hundreds of workers, was another reminder that should really sting us deeply.

Do we know where the things we consumer are made?
Do we know how they are made, and what the real costs are?
Do we honestly think that other human beings should pay with their own lives so that we can have cheap clothing?
If not, why are we refusing to acknowledge the facts, why are we still continuing to support the brands using what is no better than slave labor? Is it because they are so far away from us, we can almost pretend they are not there?

I have been reading lots and lots. It's good, it reduces my time spent on the computer!

Honestly, lately I have been dwelling on spiritual matters much more than simplicity and minimalism. Simplicity makes room for this, obviously, as my mind isn't busy thinking about STUFF -or lack thereof- all the time.

I want to share this drawing of angels that Indiana made recently, and with this I wish you all a blessed spring time!





Monday, April 8, 2013

Simple food




A couple of you asked for some recipes of healthy treats I make, smoothies and stuff.
The problem is that I hardly ever follow any recipes, so I don't have specific amounts of anything. I tend to just wing it, whether I'm cooking or knitting or whatever.

But I can write a little bit about how we eat and give you recipes of sorts -or at least explanations on a couple of things we frequently make.

I'm a really lazy cook. On my own I would never ever eat two warm meals a day, some days I would eat none. We almost always have one-bowl meals. It's usually rice or pasta with some sauce with it.  Bolognese sauce, and fresh avocado with fresh basil, leaf parsley and parmesan cheese (flavor with salt, lime juice and fresh red chili pepper) are among favorites. The avocado recipe is super easy, you just mix everything in a big bowl and add the cooked pasta.

I can't imagine spending two hours in the kitchen preparing dinner.
What also makes it "simple food" is that I don't offer many different dishes at once. We may eat baked potatoes with cheese and just have some raw veggie bits with them. Often I "deal" with the veggies by peeling carrots and giving them to eat while the hungry ones are waiting for dinner.
We don't have a lot of food waste, because I make sure we eat left-over before making new food, and I think also because of creative cooking - if there is something in the fridge that needs to be used, I use it in a dish where I would normally not use that ingredient. I also sometimes create new dishes from leftovers, by adding stuff to them.






We really love salads, and when I make a salad I make a big one that we can eat for two or three days. Because I'm lazy, and it's a lot of work to wash and peel and chop all the ingredients, and it feels like less work to do more at once ;) Indiana doesn't eat salads, so I will just give her the usual carrot sticks and bell pepper slices and some fruit, and she will eat those with some frozen food like veggies patties or falafel, or if we are also having salmon or something, she will have that with her veggies. If she is still hungry she can have some bread as well.



I'm not above letting her eat toast or cereal for lunch sometimes. She may eat goat cheese straight from the container.


I do use convenience foods. I don't feel too guilty about skipping a meal because we had too many snacks. I love it when we eat out and I can skip cooking for the day.

It's all food, and it's still much more varied than most people in the world have, even if it's not always the healthiest possible option.



And now for the delicious treats our kids and husbands will devour and  get a bunch of healthy stuff at the same time :) They are also super easy to make.

Smoothies:





-Frozen fruit or berries. We use strawberries the most because they are Indiana's favorites, but also blueberries and raspberries and currants and even lingonberries (tart). I also buy frozen mango, because that happens to be found at the store and those are good to use in  yellow smoothies :) You can mix any combination of course.

-Any juice. We also sometimes use coconut milk or almond milk or rice milk or soy cream.You just add enough liquid to cover the frozen stuff and add more if it seems too thick.

-Honey to sweeten

-I usually put in a  couple of raw free range eggs for super healthy protein, but you can skip them if you don't like the idea. I can tell that I have been doing this for 9 years and nobody ever got sick. I learned to use raw eggs like this in Cambodia.

-I almost always add banana for the thick consistency. I may add other fresh fruit too.

- I often add frozen or fresh spinach or some other green stuff. If you don't put too much nobody will say a word :) You can of course put in other veggies too, like carrots.

Good combinations include: Strawberry-coconut, Mango-orange juice-banana, Blueberry-raspberry-spinach.. but the variations are endless.

Tofu pudding:


-A block of soft tofu

-Maple syrup (or honey) to sweeten

-Vanilla (we use vanilla sugar)

-A heaping tablespoon of almond butter

-Dash of cream or soy cream (you can even skip it but it makes for a milder taste)

Blend everything until the tofu is smooth. This is the basic recipe, but the last time I made this I also added in the left overs from a chocolate spread (that my husband likes to eat with rye bread).

For variations, your imagination is the limit. You can add some frozen or fresh fruit, berries or other nut butters. You can sweeten with brown sugar.


I think most people know this one, but I will still tell you about one other favorite,

Banana Ice cream:



-Bananas, sliced and frozen (flat, so they don't clump together). Blend until the consistency is like soft serve ice cream. You can add frozen strawberries(or other frozen berries) but really the only thing you need is bananas!


For me, simple eating is about not making a big fuss, not getting stressed about it, not having strict rules. I'm so glad I no longer react to gluten, and that Indiana is not quite as sensitive to dairy anymore. Her mild milk allergy is the only restriction right now. We eat when we are hungry, not at a specific time. This gives our life flexibility. If I don't have to have a strict schedule, I won't impose one on myself, though I do realize some people rely on them for their life to run smoothly!

Do you have any favorite simple foods or recipes to share? I'm always glad to get new ideas!














Sunday, March 31, 2013

The Gift of Easter



On this day, nearly two thousand years ago, Mary of Magdalene and some other women went to the grave of Jesus Christ, only to find it empty. There were two angels, and they said: "He is not here".

That moment it was the only place in the world, where He wasn't.
He wasn't in the grave.
So He IS.

This Easter I realize the extent of those words. I am just beginning to grasp what it means to walk in Christ.
Life is not boring as a Christian. Oh no, strange and wonderful things happen.
I was into all kinds of New Age stuff and Eastern religions for ten years, longing to feel something holy, searching for a higher meaning, something that would make sense, something to fill that gaping void inside me. And what I found is that all of the supposed secrets and powers and exotic diets and  mind alteration pale in comparison to the fantastic Grace and incredible mystery that happens when you give your life over to Christ. And the best part is, that it is FREELY ON OFFER TO ANYONE WHO WILL ACCEPT IT.  You don't have to earn it or work for it. You don't have to change to get it. But when you accept the offer, it starts a process of transformation.  I  feel the guidance. I ask that my sins be pointed at me clearly so I can repent (because I don't trust myself to realize when I'm sinning), and oh, they are pointed. And of course, I sin again. But it only makes it all the more clear that I am nothing without Him, but a sinner. With Him, I'm still a sinner, but one who is redeemed. Without Him, I would not even have my faith.  I wish I could one day say as well: "I no longer live, but He lives in me". That is my true quest - to be so filled with the Holy Spirit that my own ego has no space left. That my sinful soul be a servant to the Spirit.

Happy Easter!