Saturday, October 26, 2013

Our Daily Bread
















There are people in this world, who after paying bills and putting food on the table, give away the rest of their paycheck. They don't keep savings or retirement funds or stocks. They don't put their trust in money, belongings, property, stock market, insurances, themselves or other people. They trust the Lord to keep providing for them, taking care of their needs.

Wow, it's possible to live like that. Isn't it so inspiring?  Imagine what freedom and calm you can experience when you put your trust in the sovereign God of the universe, and not on yourself, not on the stuff that this world wants to make you think you cannot live without.

Some people think that when they have a bulging bank account or stock portfolio, they are safe. But that is a false sense of security. Just think about where the world is today. I'm not an financial expert (nor any other kind of expert) but many people who are experts in the financial realm, are saying that the world economy will collapse, that it's inevitable. In any case, it is a very real possibility.

Anything you have can be taken away. No material thing can offer real security. It's okay to have some material things, but don't put your trust in them.
Even your life is not your own.

Jesus taught us to pray for our daily bread. He didn't tell us to pray for  a big house, two BMW's, and lots of savings. We are to live our lives trusting him, taking each step in life in faith. We are not shown the whole picture of our life and what the future will hold for us. If we knew, we wouldn't be living in faith.

And you know what? He WILL lead those who are faithful to him.

He is a living God.

Saturday, September 14, 2013

Answers on Basics













Hi there! I promised to answer a few questions for Kate. Sorry I'm a bit late, my husband was away on a trip for a couple of weeks and I just felt like I had my hands full... We did some fun things like staying overnight with my brother and his wife and digging in their potato garden! Our time alone, just the two of us, actually went really nicely. We prayed for help in being kind and patient towards each other, and it helped :)

As for the questions, here they are:

minimum clothes items?
toiletries what are the basics?
jewelry how much is too much?


First off, I must say that this is a difficult question because each person has different needs and lifestyle. I am in no way an expert, so take this as one person's experience and opinion.
For clothes, it depends on the climate you live in, your hobbies, how often you do laundry, and how often you can stand to shop. Yes, I've come to realize it is also one factor. I've lived with very little clothing for almost one and half years, so I'm staring to have some new insight into this. The thing is, if you have two pairs of pants and five tops, you are constantly wearing the same thing and they wear out quickly. You may end up feeling like you are always having to replace some item, be it socks, panties, a t-shirt, whatever. 

Right now my only pair of jeans have a zipper that will not stay closed at all. Replacing  zippers in jeans is notoriously difficult, so I am putting off trying to do it.. But I have also been putting off buying a second pair of jeans. 

And my only pair of sweatpants have several small holes in them. 

So while you can easily live with very little, say, 15 items, in the long run it can get tedious because not only are you having to keep up with doing the laundry constantly, but also having to shop for replacements at times when you really don't feel like it, or when you just can't find the thing you are trying to replace, if it's something specific, like comfy underwear or pants that fit you well. You may end up having to only wear a tunic top with your jeans so that the open zipper doesn't show, and when your tunic top is in the laundry, you can't wear the jeans either :)

I have come a long way from a person who liked to shop for entertainment... I prefer buying things on-line, and using the local equivalent of ebay for secondhand kids clothes. (Just yesterday I bought leather sneakers and gore tex winter boots for Indiana there. We are about to take her too small winter clothes and a few other things to the refugee arrival center.) But yesterday I went to an actual brick-and-mortar shop, with the hope that I would actually find several clothing items in that one place. And I did!  I bought two pairs of corduroy pants, two jersey tops and one long sleeved dress. I'm totally becoming a person who wears clothes from a couple of different places only, because it's so easy. So what if majority of my clothes comes from the same place.. who cares. I'm way past trying to "express myself" through my clothing. I just want it comfortable and simple and practical.

A quick look at my winter clothes now reveals that I have

2 corduroy pants
1 black wool jersey slim leg pants
2 tights
1 velour lounge pants
7 jersey/knit long sleeve tops 
4 blouse/tunic tops
1 checked flannel shirt
3 dresses fit for winter
2 cardigans, one thick and one thin

Not counting the hole-y sweatpants and jeans with a broken zipper ;)
So that's 23 items now and I feel like it's a pretty good amount and I feel like I have some variety and I have enough to not have to worry about running out of clean clothes all the time. 

So around 20-25 clothing items excluding outerwear. I would not want to go for much less than this, for the reasons I explained, though someone else may be happy to.

I didn't include summer clothes because we have such distinct seasons here. (And it's amazingly nice beginning of fall this year, I'm so happy about the warm sunny weather!) We need a separate wardrobe for summer, but I have a little less of summer clothing because summer is so much shorter, and some of the "winter" stuff is really all-year stuff.. 

For outerwear, it really depends on the climate. I need

winter boots
wellies
walking shoes/sneakers
sandals for summer
ballerina flats for fancier occasions

thin water repellent coat
thick winter coat
outerwear pants for outdoorsy stuff in winter time or in rainy weather

hat
scarf
mittens 

For this summer I had 

4 dresses
1 pair of cut-off sweatpants 
1 pair of clam digger pants
4 t-shirts/short sleeve tops
3 tank tops
1 thin long sleeve blouse
1 linen-cotton cardigan

So that's 15 pieces of summer clothing.

The key to living with a small wardrobe is making everything mix together, and multi-functional items. A lot of patterned colorful pieces just won't work. Make most of your wardrobe solid colors and limit the patterned pieces. A patterned dress is okay, but if you only have patterned tights and a patterned cardigan as well, and to top it off all of them are in different color schemes, then you will always have trouble coming up with outfits. I'm not saying that minimalists should only dress in black and grey. If you love bright colors, and you love all of them and don't want to pick just two, then you could, for example, have only neutral colored bottoms and have a rainbow of colored tops. Solid colors can work in a surprising combination, but patterns are very hard to mix.

I have noticed the same goes for kids' clothes as well. Indi's favorite color is red and she has a lot of red clothes, but also other colors, mostly solids, some stripes and a few patterned tops. I know a lot of children love clothes with prints and pictures, but I've never noticed that to be a major factor for her, so I don't feel like I'm a boring mum who only gets her boring clothes. For children who are not peeing their pants three times a day anymore, but are still making a mess of themselves occasionally, I'd say seven pants and seven tops is pretty good amount. No more than ten, anyway. A couple of dresses for girls, or even more of course if they are girls who like to wear dresses every day. Then just have less tops and more dresses. 



As for toiletries, then..

A deodorant
Toothpaste
Shampoo
Conditioner (if you use any)
Soap

I would say those are the essentials. However, many people prefer to wash their face with something else besides soap, and a lot of people need moisturizer, especially in harsh climates. I went over a year without any specific facial cleansers, but my skin was suffering a little and a few months ago I got a cleanser, toner and moisturizer, but I don't use them all every day. Mostly because I'm lazy. I have a small bottle of almond oil that I use on my skin and hair as well (it can be some other oil as well, like avocado or coconut, I just happen to have almond oil right now).
I would not count make-up as essential by any means. I hardly ever wear make-up anymore, but I do have a concealer for dark under-eyes, a make-up powder, blush and two lipsticks. No mascara because it inevitably goes bad before I get around to using it more than a couple of times and makes my eyes itchy. I'm getting more and more used to going bare faced. Indi doesn't like me wearing lipstick either, and she says I'm prettier without. The under-eye concealer is my most often used make-up item, and the one I will probably keep using occasionally even if I give up all other make-up. 

And jewelry, how much is too much, huh?

If the question was similarly about the MINIMUM amount of jewelry, the answer would have been easy! None, that is. Except your wedding band if you are married. Because we all know that jewelry is not necessary at all and there is no minimum amount that we should have! 

Again, this is highly subjective. I wear two simple silver bands on my ring finger, and a pair of small drop diamond earrings that I inherited from my grandmother and which I love because they are comfortable to sleep in, and a silver cross necklace. 

But I have more than this stored in a small box.  I like to wear the same jewelry all the time and only on a rare occasion put on another larger piece.  I have two bigger necklaces and a large silver ring that I can wear to make a simple outfit more special, and I have some old inherited jewelry that I'm keeping to give to my daughter and nieces later. 

As for what is too much, well, if you don't wear it or if it is not special in some way (for example inherited) that you really want to keep it, then it's too much. Also, if you already have a lot and are still buying more, then it's too much. If it doesn't fit in a shoe box it might be too much.

Too much of anything is when it's not being used or worn or appreciated, or when it is rather a hindrance than a blessing.

A minimum is an amount that is helpful to your life, not limiting it for a lack that is consuming your time and thoughts.

I would still say this: It doesn't matter whether you have fifteen pieces of clothing or fifty. 

What matters most is the attitude you have. Appreciate and use what you have. Be thankful. Be willing to part with it too if you don't need it but don't end up in a cycle of shopping and discarding, that is a crying shame that we westerners engage in way too much... There is pleasure in actually using up a piece of clothing so that it's good for nothing except a rag. And I don't mean those cheap, poorly made clothes that barely last two washes that we should not buy in the first place.

I hope some you found this helpful :)









Thursday, August 22, 2013

Biblical Stewardship of Money


















10 Myths About Money & Giving - Tim Conway


It's quite long, but really good teaching. 
And it ties into simple living. 
We all know it, when we don't buy so much stuff, we have more money to give. 
I'm not giving in order to get more. We should never do that, besides, I doubt it would work. God sees our hearts and He loves a joyful giver. He even loves the giver who gives because it's the right thing to do, even though it may sting ;) But the one who gives in order to gain, out of selfish reasons, thinking it's like a magic trick, or that then God would be in debt to him or obliged to give him back manyfold is utterly deluded.

But nevertheless, I gave more last year than ever before, and we now have more than ever before. My husband got a new job that is location independent and pays well. So now we can live anywhere, and we can give more. It is God's money, He gives and takes as He wishes. We are called to give freely. We can pray for Jesus to lead needy people to us and lead us to good causes to support. We can pray for a more generous heart, one that has complete trust that our needs will be met by our Lord. Giving freely is love. Just like giving your child all the wild strawberries you pick.

It's amazing how often we Christians don't "see" the passages in bible concerning money. How Jesus told the rich man to sell everything and give to the poor, how John the Baptist told that if you have two shirts and someone has none, to give the other away. Again and again we are told not to hoard treasures on Earth.. Yet what does nearly every one of us do? I admit I do this too. Sometimes it feels "crazy" to give away a large chunk of money, but not crazy in a weird way. It feels right, and joyful.

This is an area that I feel strongly about. I want to grow in it. I want to learn to spend even less on me and more on others. I still get "wants" sometimes. I stay away from magazines that prompt want. I notice it so clearly now that I hardly ever look at one. I was at the doctor yesterday for check-up and browsed an interior design magazine. I was filled with mixed emotions of "oh, that's really nice!! "  and "ugh, this is all so grossly materialistic!" Hahah. I'm not immune, so I stay away!!

It's not realistic for most people to think they can change over night from loving fancy stuff and shopping, to one that hates shopping and thinks of stuff only in terms of immediate usefullness. I have gone a long way (and have yet a way to go) and it's amazing. 





















Saturday, June 29, 2013

Simple summer greetings











My husband's vacation started. We have not much plans. We will stay at my sister's house for a few days to take care of their animals while they are away. I think we should play tourists there and drive around the countryside and see sights. I hope the weather will be nice!

I am trying to learn to drive a car -my husband is teaching me. It's going well but it still makes me anxious. Hm. I will give it an honest shot though, and see if I can get used to it. Living in the city I will not need it much, but in case we decide move to a place where you need to drive to get to places.. well it's better to know now whether I will be comfortable driving or not!

Some of you asked about my old posts. I'm sorry to tell you that they are gone. I just acted on a whim and going through the 160 posts and reviewing the content just seemed like too much work, so I just deleted everything and started over. I hope I can write some new stuff of value to you. Perhaps I will occasionally post a picture of Indi as well, but not as much as before. I don't know yet.

I'm trying to make the most of this summer, even though I do miss having a garden and a sauna :)
On most days we spend time at the community playground (there is also free lunch every day for children in June and July, which is fun - sitting in the grass eating soup!) and at the beach. In mid-August Indi is going to start the church play group, three hours every morning. It will be good for all of us. She is getting a little bored, and I sometimes feel like going out of my mind with lack of personal space :) I think that three hours will make a big difference, even though it's not really enough time for me to do much.

So when she starts the play group I will just give myself some time to re-coup and then perhaps see if I can re-new some old interests, or find new ones, and I will pray for guidance. I do not want to end up chasing meaningless things. I'm taking part in a summer group exhibit because I was asked to.. but just old works.

I hope everyone is having a beautiful, blessed summer!





Monday, June 17, 2013

Two views of a room








Our living room. See how easy it is to take pictures and make everything seem calm and serene?
I'm keeping a blind eye to the mess on the other side (and this here is after a clean-up!). It spreads all over the floor and when I get tired of hopping over it we will clean it up. As much as she loves crafting, I'm happy that Indi is willing to trash the "crafts" she is done with. Some things she keeps for quite long. (Sometimes I clean by myself though and put stuff in a temporary holding spot before the final destination...)

And as unsightly as her craft is, it sure is simple too: she just pulls out empty cardboard containers from the recycling and glues and tapes and draws a bit. I don't have to worry about her "wasting" precious craft supplies, or keeping her handiworks forever.
I can let her go to town with it.
And she does.

Monday, June 3, 2013

Spring Into Summer

















Suddenly we went from jackets and wellies to t-shirts and bare feet! 
We just visited friends in Berlin and came back to full blown summer at home.
It's hot here, and I'm trying to soak in as much summer as I can. 

Free lunch every day for the kids at the community playground, the beach, ice creams, sand everywhere.. 
Summertime is good indeed.

One of my readers asked about what I've been reading. Well, a lot. I read the bible (and I highly recommend it to everyone of course ;) ) and a lot of other books. 
I would like to recommend  a few of them.

Merlin Carothers: Prison to Praise  (and Power in Praise) (Kiitä sittenkin ja Kiitoksen voima)

"Many people list this as the most unusual book they have ever read. Millions say it changed their lives and introduced them to the solution to their problems. This is not a book about a prison with bars, but about a prison of circumstances-and how to be set free!"

This book really is something else. When I was reading it, I actually recognized the same truth behind it, than what I experienced when I was healed. When you unconditionally hand over the control of your life to Christ, you are at the same time ACCEPTING ANYTHING that He decides to give you. You ACCEPT HIS WILL. These books go further, to teach us (with many many examples from his own experience and from those around him) how we should be thankful for EVERYTHING in our lives, the good and the seemingly bad, and how radically that will change our lives. 

If you trust your Lord, you trust that every hair on your head is counted, and that your best interest is what He has in mind. We don't always see it, we fight it, we moan and complain. We are really saying that we don't trust God. We don't believe he has everything covered, that we can truly depend on Him, even if He has told us so.  It was astounding to me, that the moment I told God that I was His to do whatever He needed to do with, if I should stay sick then it must be so.. that was the moment I was freed. Yet I still find myself getting frustrated about petty little things that don't go my way. I really believe there is truth in this, so I try now to give thanks about everything in my life. I'm so much a work in process, though! But it doesn't work until you belong to Jesus. If you have not handed over your life, given up control, then you are in charge, and you cannot either thank God or blame God for your circumstances. You are on your own because you choose to be. When you are His, He WILL take care of you and walk right by your side. Then you need to know it and believe it, and thank Him every day for it. 



Two other books I read and liked talk about getting closer to God in a real way. You can talk to Him, and you can get answers. Really! I wish I'd known that long time ago. The Holy Spirit is not just an abstract idea, He is the third person of the Holy Trinity. You know, One God, three personalities. (How can God be One and yet three? Think about a cube. It has six sides. Each side is it's own part, an individual side of the box, perhaps painted a different color, but yet all of them are parts of the one cube and you can't take out one of the sides and still have a cube!). 
He was sent to us to be our guide and comforter. He is real. His job is to glorify Jesus and bring understanding of scriptures. 


John Bevere: Drawing Near: A Life of Intimacy with God  (Lähesty Jumalaa)

"In Drawing Near, John Bevere invites readers to explore a life of intimacy with God. Emphasizing the need for obedience, he urges us to practice-just as we would practice anything we hope to improve-our communication with the Holy Spirit. Understanding that prayer is a dialogue, not a monologue, Bevere encourages us to listen at the Father's feet. "

*NOTE: In one paragraph he mentions physically disciplining his child. I DO NOT advocate that. I didn't want to toss aside the whole book because of that issue, however. The book has so much merit and we can hardly expect to read many books where we agree with 100% of what is written.


John Ortberg: The Life You've Always Wanted (Elämä jota kaipaan)

"The heart of Christianity is transformation---a relationship with God that impacts not just our 'spiritual lives,' but every aspect of living. "

We tend to be so focused on this world. This life. We keep asking God to give us good things in this life. But the greatest gift He is offering is eternal salvation, through repentance and accepting Jesus as our savior. He is offering us Eternity. In the Bible it says to seek first the Kingdom of God, and all other things will be added. It means that when you give up your life to Jesus and seek Him first, He will then take care of the other stuff. The focus should not be on the stuff of the world. Our greatest wish and prayer should be to know Him better!

We need to understand God's perspective is indeed eternity. If our perspective is this earthly 80 years or so, we will never understand what He wants us to prioritize and why, and we will never be happy.










Monday, May 6, 2013

First blooms




























We went to see our woods for the first time in months. It was a cloudy and a little rainy day.
I found this peculiar blooming bush with the most delicate little flowers. I don't know what it is - none of the blooming trees and bushes I know are yet blooming.

I haven't posted anything in a while. I feel like I am starting to sound like a broken record. I feel like I shouldn't post unless I feel like I actually have something to say. I don't want to waste your time reading forced posts, which I wrote just to have something to post.

But the idea of simplicity is timeless. The idea that we shouldn't be greedy and hoard more than we need will never get old. The recent tragedy in Bangladesh, where a large clothing factory providing underpaid labor for many clothing brands, collapsed because it was not properly maintained and security checked, killing hundreds of workers, was another reminder that should really sting us deeply.

Do we know where the things we consumer are made?
Do we know how they are made, and what the real costs are?
Do we honestly think that other human beings should pay with their own lives so that we can have cheap clothing?
If not, why are we refusing to acknowledge the facts, why are we still continuing to support the brands using what is no better than slave labor? Is it because they are so far away from us, we can almost pretend they are not there?

I have been reading lots and lots. It's good, it reduces my time spent on the computer!

Honestly, lately I have been dwelling on spiritual matters much more than simplicity and minimalism. Simplicity makes room for this, obviously, as my mind isn't busy thinking about STUFF -or lack thereof- all the time.

I want to share this drawing of angels that Indiana made recently, and with this I wish you all a blessed spring time!





Monday, April 8, 2013

Simple food




A couple of you asked for some recipes of healthy treats I make, smoothies and stuff.
The problem is that I hardly ever follow any recipes, so I don't have specific amounts of anything. I tend to just wing it, whether I'm cooking or knitting or whatever.

But I can write a little bit about how we eat and give you recipes of sorts -or at least explanations on a couple of things we frequently make.

I'm a really lazy cook. On my own I would never ever eat two warm meals a day, some days I would eat none. We almost always have one-bowl meals. It's usually rice or pasta with some sauce with it.  Bolognese sauce, and fresh avocado with fresh basil, leaf parsley and parmesan cheese (flavor with salt, lime juice and fresh red chili pepper) are among favorites. The avocado recipe is super easy, you just mix everything in a big bowl and add the cooked pasta.

I can't imagine spending two hours in the kitchen preparing dinner.
What also makes it "simple food" is that I don't offer many different dishes at once. We may eat baked potatoes with cheese and just have some raw veggie bits with them. Often I "deal" with the veggies by peeling carrots and giving them to eat while the hungry ones are waiting for dinner.
We don't have a lot of food waste, because I make sure we eat left-over before making new food, and I think also because of creative cooking - if there is something in the fridge that needs to be used, I use it in a dish where I would normally not use that ingredient. I also sometimes create new dishes from leftovers, by adding stuff to them.






We really love salads, and when I make a salad I make a big one that we can eat for two or three days. Because I'm lazy, and it's a lot of work to wash and peel and chop all the ingredients, and it feels like less work to do more at once ;) Indiana doesn't eat salads, so I will just give her the usual carrot sticks and bell pepper slices and some fruit, and she will eat those with some frozen food like veggies patties or falafel, or if we are also having salmon or something, she will have that with her veggies. If she is still hungry she can have some bread as well.



I'm not above letting her eat toast or cereal for lunch sometimes. She may eat goat cheese straight from the container.


I do use convenience foods. I don't feel too guilty about skipping a meal because we had too many snacks. I love it when we eat out and I can skip cooking for the day.

It's all food, and it's still much more varied than most people in the world have, even if it's not always the healthiest possible option.



And now for the delicious treats our kids and husbands will devour and  get a bunch of healthy stuff at the same time :) They are also super easy to make.

Smoothies:





-Frozen fruit or berries. We use strawberries the most because they are Indiana's favorites, but also blueberries and raspberries and currants and even lingonberries (tart). I also buy frozen mango, because that happens to be found at the store and those are good to use in  yellow smoothies :) You can mix any combination of course.

-Any juice. We also sometimes use coconut milk or almond milk or rice milk or soy cream.You just add enough liquid to cover the frozen stuff and add more if it seems too thick.

-Honey to sweeten

-I usually put in a  couple of raw free range eggs for super healthy protein, but you can skip them if you don't like the idea. I can tell that I have been doing this for 9 years and nobody ever got sick. I learned to use raw eggs like this in Cambodia.

-I almost always add banana for the thick consistency. I may add other fresh fruit too.

- I often add frozen or fresh spinach or some other green stuff. If you don't put too much nobody will say a word :) You can of course put in other veggies too, like carrots.

Good combinations include: Strawberry-coconut, Mango-orange juice-banana, Blueberry-raspberry-spinach.. but the variations are endless.

Tofu pudding:


-A block of soft tofu

-Maple syrup (or honey) to sweeten

-Vanilla (we use vanilla sugar)

-A heaping tablespoon of almond butter

-Dash of cream or soy cream (you can even skip it but it makes for a milder taste)

Blend everything until the tofu is smooth. This is the basic recipe, but the last time I made this I also added in the left overs from a chocolate spread (that my husband likes to eat with rye bread).

For variations, your imagination is the limit. You can add some frozen or fresh fruit, berries or other nut butters. You can sweeten with brown sugar.


I think most people know this one, but I will still tell you about one other favorite,

Banana Ice cream:



-Bananas, sliced and frozen (flat, so they don't clump together). Blend until the consistency is like soft serve ice cream. You can add frozen strawberries(or other frozen berries) but really the only thing you need is bananas!


For me, simple eating is about not making a big fuss, not getting stressed about it, not having strict rules. I'm so glad I no longer react to gluten, and that Indiana is not quite as sensitive to dairy anymore. Her mild milk allergy is the only restriction right now. We eat when we are hungry, not at a specific time. This gives our life flexibility. If I don't have to have a strict schedule, I won't impose one on myself, though I do realize some people rely on them for their life to run smoothly!

Do you have any favorite simple foods or recipes to share? I'm always glad to get new ideas!